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Proverbs 20:3 - Meaning and Application
Understand how this verse speaks to what you're facing and how to apply it today
Translation: World English Bible — Catholic Edition
" It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling. "
Proverbs 20:3
Verse in Context
Understanding the surrounding verses prevents misinterpretation:
1 Wine is a mocker and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise.
2 The terror of a king is like the roaring of a lion. He who provokes him to anger forfeits his own life.
3 It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling.
4 The sluggard will not plow by reason of the winter; therefore he shall beg in harvest, and have nothing.
5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.
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This verse corrects a common mistake people make about conflict. Many think it is wise to jump into arguments, but it is really great foolishness. A person may think he is very wise if he is quick to take offense, rigid about every point of honor and justice, and unwilling to give up even the smallest thing. He may also think it is his place to set the rules for everyone else. But the one who keeps meddling in quarrels is a fool, and he only brings needless trouble on himself.
People also think that, once they are in a fight, it would be shameful to back down and lay down the weapon. In truth, it is honorable for a man to stop arguing. It is honorable to withdraw a case, drop a dispute, forgive an insult, and make peace with those he has been at odds with. A wise and strong person shows self-control by ceasing from strife, giving way, and stepping back from even rightful claims for the sake of peace, as Abraham did, the better man in that conflict (Genesis 13:8).
From This Chapter
Proverbs 20:1
"Wine is a mocker and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise."
Proverbs 20:2
"The terror of a king is like the roaring of a lion. He who provokes him to anger forfeits his own life."
Proverbs 20:4
"The sluggard will not plow by reason of the winter; therefore he shall beg in harvest, and have nothing."
Proverbs 20:5
"Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out."
Proverbs 20:6
"Many men claim to be men of unfailing love, but who can find a faithful man?"
Proverbs 20:7
"A righteous man walks in integrity. Blessed are his children after him."
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